It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.
Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.
BAILING ON PLANS Andrew, a college professor from Florida, says that if a date cancels on him, he is unlikely to reschedule.When you break your plans with someone, you are saying to them, ‘Something better than you came along.’ And if they are already prioritizing something or someone else over you, this will only continue.” TREATING YOU LIKE AN AMAZON PURCHASE Julie, a matchmaker, recalls the man who felt compelled to express his dissatisfaction with her appearance. “He looked at me with an unsmiling face and said, ‘Hi. You look a lot older than your photos.’” While Julie admits that one of her many photos was a bit dusty, his brazen rudeness told her all she needed to know. “Felt like a I dodged a bullet,” she says, “imagine how the next hour would have gone?! The challenge, of course, is maintaining that New Year’s resolution even if you haven’t met your one-and-only by Valentine’s Day.With so many options, it’s easy to become overwhelmed—or burn out.“After about 20 minutes, I faked an excuse and left the restaurant early.